The Order of Our Wedding Reception

Wedding receptions can be so fun, but they can also be a drag. The mood is really set by the wedding reception order of events. I’ve been to weddings where dinner isn’t served until 10 pm, which can be bad for someone who gets “hangry” like me, and I’ve been to receptions where 10 people give speeches, that’s fun and all but becomes overwhelming. 

It’s also proper etiquette to not leave before the cake is cut, so people will feel obligated to stay and you don’t want to hold your friends and family too long if they aren’t night owls or have other commitments pending the time of day.

When planning our reception, I wanted it to be quick, concise and get straight to the fun things like dancing. Below is the order of our wedding reception which worked perfect for us! I also included the songs, in case you were curious.

Wedding Reception Order

7 PM

Cocktail Hour with chips and salsa

Guests enter the reception banquet room and find assigned tables

Bridal Party Enters

“24k Magic” by Bruno Mars

Introduction of Bride and Groom

“Crazy in Love” by Beyonce

First Dance with Bride and Groom

“Crazy Girl” by Eli Young Band

Thank you and Prayer from Father of the Bride

Dinner – Buffet Style

 

8 PM

Toasts from Maid of Honor and Best Man

Bride’s Dance with Dad

“Butterfly Kisses” by Bob Carlisle

Groom’s Dance with Mom

“Humble and Kind” by Tim McGraw

Cake Cutting

“How Sweet It Is” by James Taylor

Open Dance Floor

 

9:45

Last Dance

“When a Man Loves A Woman” by Percy Sledge

Exit

“Hey Ya” by Outkast

Private Last Dance

“Keep My Heart Open” by Green River Ordinance

 

10 PM

Send Off